Practice area

Divorce and Family Law Attorneys

PM & Co assists clients with divorce, children's matters, maintenance and family disputes with discretion, clarity and a practical focus on long-term outcomes.

Legal context

Divorce & Family Law

Divorce and family law deals with the legal consequences of marriage, divorce, parental responsibilities and rights, care and contact, maintenance, domestic violence protection, harassment protection and related family disputes. The correct procedure is often as important as the merits of the matter. A missed notice, incorrect court process or poorly drafted document can affect the client's legal position, costs and available remedies.

The main legal framework includes the Divorce Act 70 of 1979, Children's Act 38 of 2005, Maintenance Act 99 of 1998, Mediation in Certain Divorce Matters Act 24 of 1987, domestic violence and harassment legislation, and the roles of the High Court, Regional Court, Children's Court, Maintenance Court and Family Advocate. Depending on the issue, the matter may involve the High Court, Regional Court, Maintenance Court, Domestic Violence Court or Children's Court. The correct court and process must be selected because children's interests, maintenance, property consequences and urgent protection may each require a different route.

Clients usually need an attorney when a marriage has broken down, parenting arrangements are disputed, maintenance is unpaid, assets must be divided, a parenting plan is needed, or protection is required from abuse or harassment. Early legal input helps identify the client's rights, the correct process, the evidence needed and whether negotiation, mediation, urgent relief or formal proceedings are appropriate.

How PM & Co can help

  • Advise on divorce procedure, patrimonial consequences and settlement options.
  • Draft parenting plans, settlement agreements and consent papers.
  • Assist with care, contact, guardianship and maintenance disputes.
  • Prepare court documents and represent clients in appropriate courts.
  • Guide clients through urgent protection, harassment or child-related issues.

Common matters we assist with

  • Opposed and unopposed divorces.
  • Parenting plans, care and contact arrangements.
  • Child and spousal maintenance.
  • Division of assets, accrual and pension interest issues.
  • Domestic violence and harassment-related legal steps.
  • Relocation, travel consent and guardianship issues.
  • Family Advocate referrals and reports.

When to seek legal help urgently

  • A child's safety, care or schooling is at risk.
  • A parent threatens to remove a child without consent.
  • You have been served with divorce or maintenance papers.
  • Assets are being hidden, sold or moved.
  • Maintenance has stopped and essential expenses cannot be paid.
  • Protection from domestic violence or harassment is needed.

Legal framework

The right route matters.

Legal matters often turn on the correct statute, court process, notice, evidence and deadline. PM & Co uses the consultation to understand your story first, then connects the legal framework to your specific facts and documents.

What happens next

A structured route from concern to action.

Book a confidential family law consultation with PM & Co to understand your options before taking the next step.

  1. 01

    Step 01

    We listen to the facts and identify the urgent and non-urgent issues.

  2. 02

    Step 02

    We explain the legal process and likely documents needed.

  3. 03

    Step 03

    We advise on settlement, mediation or litigation strategy.

  4. 04

    Step 04

    We draft or respond to court papers and settlement documents.

  5. 05

    Step 05

    We help clients make informed decisions without inflaming conflict unnecessarily.

Documents checklist

Documents that may later assist

For the first consultation, the most important thing is to explain what happened, what outcome you need and whether there are urgent dates. After we understand the matter, we will confirm which documents are actually required.

  • Marriage certificate and antenuptial contract.
  • Identity documents, passports and proof of address.
  • Children's birth certificates, school details and medical aid information.
  • List of assets and liabilities, including property, vehicles, investments and loans.
  • Bond statements, vehicle finance statements and pension/provident fund details.
  • Monthly budget for each party and the children.
  • Existing court orders, parenting plans, maintenance orders or settlement agreements.
  • Relevant correspondence, threats, travel issues or protection order documents.

Questions clients ask

Divorce & Family Law FAQs

What are the grounds for divorce ?

South African divorce law recognises irretrievable breakdown of the marriage as the most common ground. The court considers whether the marriage relationship has broken down to the point where there is no reasonable prospect of restoration. The facts and evidence depend on the matter.

Can a divorce be unopposed?

Yes. If both parties agree on divorce, children's arrangements, maintenance, assets, liabilities and costs, an unopposed divorce may be possible. The agreement must be properly drafted and, where minor children are involved, the court must be satisfied that their best interests are protected.

What is a parenting plan?

A parenting plan records arrangements for parental responsibilities and rights, including care, contact, holidays, schooling, communication and decision-making. It should be practical and child-focused. In some cases, input from the Family Advocate or a suitably qualified professional may be required.

How is child maintenance calculated?

Child maintenance is based on the reasonable needs of the child and the financial means of the parents. Income, expenses, school fees, medical costs, care arrangements and special needs are relevant. Proper financial disclosure is important.

Can maintenance be changed?

Maintenance can be varied if there is a material change in circumstances, such as income changes, unemployment, increased needs or altered care arrangements. A party should not simply stop paying without taking proper legal steps.

What is accrual in a divorce?

Where parties are married out of community of property with accrual, the growth of their estates during the marriage is compared and a claim may arise. Calculations depend on starting values, exclusions, assets, liabilities and evidence. Financial records are essential.

What happens to pension interest on divorce?

A divorce order can deal with pension interest if properly worded and compliant with the relevant legislation and fund requirements. Incorrect wording can delay payment or make the order difficult to implement. The fund details should be obtained early.

Can one parent relocate with a child?

Relocation can affect care, contact, schooling and guardianship rights. Consent may be required, and the court may decide disputes based on the child's best interests. A parent should obtain advice before making irreversible travel or relocation plans.

What is the role of the Family Advocate?

The Family Advocate assists courts in matters involving the best interests of minor children, especially care, contact and guardianship disputes. The office may investigate, mediate and make recommendations. Its involvement depends on the case and court process.

Do I need an attorney for an unopposed divorce?

Legal assistance is strongly recommended because settlement wording has long-term consequences for children, maintenance, property, pension interests and enforcement. A short consultation can prevent costly errors in a consent paper or settlement agreement.

Let us help you choose the right next step.

Share the documents you have, the deadline you are facing and the outcome you need. PM & Co Inc Attorneys will guide you to the correct consultation route.

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